I have often heard my pregnant girlfriends talk about their experience of "baby brain." While I could conceptually understand what they were describing, I never really got it. That is, until now. Some research says it's a myth, some says it's a reality. All I know is that my brain ain't workin' right!
Some of you may not know what baby brain is, but here's what it is in my case. Normally, I am a bright, intelligent woman who has good reasoning skills and can adapt to new and changing situations. Now I find myself extremely forgetful, even ditsy, in situations which any reasonably intelligent person could easily navigate. These two situations happened in the last two days.
Yesterday, I went to get the car washed. I pulled in, and the guys immediately started spraying my car. I felt paralyzed when I realized that one of the workers was trying to get me to open the car door. I needed to get out of the car, and yet somehow I could not figure that out. It was like sitting in a fog. Then, when I got inside, I froze at the desk. The man asked, "You want your car washed, right?" "Yes, yes, that's what I need." It was as if I had never gotten my car washed before. I'm sure the clerk thought I was nuts. I even put my head on the counter at one point, trying to figure out what I needed.
Just a few minutes ago, I went to get the oil changed. I got to the bay door and proceeded to drive in, when attendant stopped me. He would drive it in; I just needed to get out of the car. (This I just attributed to the fact that I had never been to this site before.) The rest of the time there was an absolute blur. I just remember that the attendant came into the waiting room and said my car was done, and I proceeded to walk out and get into the car - trying to drive it out of the bay. The attendant then reminded me that he would drive it out, so I just walked outside and waited for my car. Then the attendant reminded me that I had not paid for the oil change.
Talk about TOTAL EMBARRASSMENT! I could not believe that I had just unintentionally tried to skip out on paying for my oil change. The fog thickens.
If I am this ditsy and feel this incompetent at 24 weeks, how I am going to feel at 38 weeks! Oh my...the next 16 weeks are going to be interesting!
Pregnant or formally pregnant women...tell me your stories of baby brain and make me feel better about my predicament.